Acknowledgement
Bangladesh is not secular. While the majority of the population follows Sunni Islamic practices, the country does pride itself on being a place for all to rejoice and celebrate their respective religion. Bangladesh currently consists of 80% Muslim, mainly Sunni, with a small number being Shia, 13% Hindu, and the rest being Buddhist or Christian. [1] Bangladesh has established Islam to be the state religion, however, allows everyone the right to practice the religion of their choice. This article will focus primarily on the two most popular religions in the country, Hinduism and Islam. The purpose of this article is to showcase the melding of both religions in Bangladesh to create a harmonious culture that is unique to Bangladeshis.
It is important to note that this piece will not be diving deeper into the possible conflicts of the two religious groups caused by different political beliefs. It is purely to highlight the melting pot of the two religions in holiday customs, events, and rituals.
Pre-Wedding Rituals in Hinduism
Hindu weddings consist of several days of different festivities. Each day differs and both religions typically have a minimum of three days worth of events leading up to the main celebration. [2]
One of the main pre-wedding events in Hindu weddings is the Gaye Holud. Holud (directly translates to Yellow- Turmeric), also known as Haldi, is when the bride and groom are dressed in yellow, and turmeric paste is rubbed onto their bodies by loved ones. Family and guests will take turns coming to the couple and blessing them while applying this paste onto them. [2] Turmeric is to represent vitality and by applying this paste onto the couple, you are purifying them and warding off any evil. For beauty reasons, the stain of the turmeric is also sought after for the glow it leaves behind on the skin. [3][4][6]
Pre-Wedding Rituals in Islam
The Mangni is the first step in the engagement ceremony. The bride and groom exchange rings and give presents to each others' family. Second is the Manjha ceremony, where the bride wears yellow and is covered in turmeric by her in-laws. [5] Third is the Mehendi, done two days prior to the wedding, the hands and feet of the bride are decorated with henna and the initials of her groom is hidden into the design. The Nikah then takes place, the main wedding ceremony where the couple sits by a priest and read verses from the holy Quran. [5]
Melding of Both Religions in Bangladeshi Weddings
Bangladeshi weddings have adopted a little bit of tradition from both religions! Originally found in Hindu weddings, Muslim couples too in Bangladesh also now do a Holud. The Holud has blended aspects with the Mehendi, which is often found in Muslim weddings. [5] In Bangladesh, both religions incorporated the usage of haldi to ward off evil and the usage of henna to decorate the brides to be. [7] Unrelated to religion, all Bangladeshis have newly married brides cut fish upon entering their in- laws house! "Baath maase Bangali!" (fish and rice and make Bangladeshi people!). Fish is considered auspicious in the Bangladeshi culture and the cutting of it by the new bride signifies future wealth and luck coming to the house due to a new member. [12]
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[1] https://www.virtualbangladesh.com/culture/religion/
[2] https://travel-weddings.com/blog/traditional-bangladeshi-wedding
[3] https://www.perniaspopupshop.com/wedding-encyclopedia/west-bengal/gaye-holud?srsltid=AfmBOoq99TJQhP-MMJz5V286m6iM4mZDbdKPb8y8e_u5T6fcgO7bp5yP
[4] https://allaboutanika.com/haldi-ceremony-gaye-holud-outfit/
[5] https://www.weddingwire.in/wedding-tips/muslim-wedding--c1489#h_8114910604301759255021385
[6] https://www.getbengal.com/details/%20more-than-just-a-wedding-ritual-gaye-holud-has-a-scientific-explanation-behind-it
[7] https://weddingsutra.com/planning/wedding-tradition-series-dive-into-the-dazzle-drama-of-bengali-weddings/
[8] https://cpsglobal.org/articles/dowry-and-dower
[9] https://www.weddingwire.in/wedding-tips/muslim-mehndi-images--c8831
[10] https://www.quora.com/Why-do-Bengali-brides-cut-fish
[11] https://hubbline.com/post/Why-do-Bengali-brides-cut-fish
[12] https://enrouteindianhistory.com/the-chemistry-between-fish-and-bengali-wedding/